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At the time though, I'd been broken hearted and decided that truly Casual Dating NY Nichols 13812 in love only led to heartache and instead I would marry someone that ticked the boxes. Yes I have thought about leaving my husband.
They rationalize their behavior by saying "I love you but I'm not in love with you" and therefore, in their minds, free themselves from their commitments and can then pursue their personal desires. Love, But Not “In Love” If you are already in a relationship with someone that you do not have a right to, we know that you will not end it as long as you can justify it in your mind. How Do I Tell My Wife I’m in Love with Someone Else? Asked by on with 1 answer: I am 33 years old and have been with my wife for 11 years and married for almost 8.
But I'm terrified about the logistics aswell as the perception of me especially by my conservative family.
Also I have had moderate-severe anxiety and depression for about a year now and not sure if a In love with someone not my wife would be the best thing right now. Having said that, a lot of my anxiety and depression has stemmed from being in an unhappy marriage so Chicken or the egg I suppose. But in the meantime, any advice or relatable experiences would be so so appreciated.
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Hello Lookingforpeace, it sounds like you feel you're going round in circles like this, I wonder whether it's worth actually making a Pros and Cons list on either side of a piece of paper so you can see the potential consequences of leaving vs staying in black and white in front of you.
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I can relate to getting married young, I did the same and we are no longer together. I loved him very much, but throughout our marriage I had a few infatuations that are exactly as In love with someone not my wife describe above. I know that noneo f mine would have worked out, and in hindsight I can see that it was more of a dissatisfaction Ih my life rather than an attraction to the other man that was mixing me up. Can I ask - were you in a long term relationship after your first husband and did you ever experience Any girls in Seattle for drinks maybe fun again during that relationship?
Also, though you loved your first husband, how did you find strength to leave despite that?
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We are so alike In love with someone not my wife connect on a level I've never experienced before. I'm yet to be in another long-term relationship, but the relationships I have been in since have started to evolve. The relationships I chose not long after the marriage were unhealthy Casual Dating Cadet Missouri 63630 based around the types of men I had been infatuated with up till that point.
I think we can in these situations have a bit of 'confirmation bias' happening - we only recognise the similarities, and choose toignore the potential red flags. Maybe they are worth a pros and cons list too!
That's why I suggest that being single for a time could be the best idea. I don't think it's ever a good idea to jump straight into a new relationship out of an old one.
How did I find the strength In love with someone not my wife leave? Well, we actually danced around it for the best part of a year. I announced that I was going to leave, but I don't think he took it seriously until the day I actually did.
I think I finally realised that any reasons I had for staying were based in the past and not in how things actually were in the prsent, or could bei n the future.
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Dear Lookingforpeace. Can I ask you something? Did you feel the same 'rush' with your husband when you first met him as Ib did with your first love? I too rekindled twice with my first boyfriend. I think it's true that we never forget our first love. However, reality check.
If you were to 'go back' to first love, how long would it be before you realized he really isn't what you remembered. My first boyfriend too was my first 'true' love. I was 15, he was You can't stay 'young' forever. Your husband has been there for In love with someone not my wife, you said yourself.
I think you should give your marriage another 'go'. From what you say, I feel it is infatuation.
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I consider myself lucky to be loved and know the feeling of love. Married and realizing I have these feelings for a guy I knew since middle school. I wish I felt as passionately about him as In love with someone not my wife do the other guy but oh well. I feel the same way. Both of us have children and partners and live different but i saw him recently at an event.
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Mg is living the best way they can, learning the best way they can, and loving the best way they can. To call someone a loser because they are honest about their feelings and wish to share them, is simply ascribing inner fallibilities upon others.
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