Been with my gf almost 9 years, living together for 6.
When we first met we only saw each other once a month because we lived so far apart so obviously when we got together we only had one thing on our minds and spent all of our time in a hotel room. We moved in together 3 years later at which time the sexual Ladies seeking real sex Huguley of our relationship was very active, i noticed the next year it became less and less and now its maybe once a year, i have spoke to her about it and she just says shes not interested in sex and doesnt even think about it anymore which makes me think she isnt attracted to me, i only have to look at her and im turned on.
Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner last time we had sex was roughly 6 months ago and only because i suggested buying myself something from ann summers as i become so frustrated, she took the hint but i feel it was out of pity not because she wanted to and i didnt feel satisfied after, when i tried to return the favour she said she was tired and that was Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner end of that.
Sometimes the sex can die out in a relationship, you do it enough it gets old.
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In any event you should talk to her about it, ask her, why do you not want sex anymore? Ask her to please be bluntly honest and detailed. However I strongly advise you to talk to her about it in detail before you make any decisions about the relationship, there may underlying issues Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner are causing the current sex issues within your relationship.
In the Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner we tried different things to spice it up so to speak, mainly because it was my first relationship with a woman and was scared about progressing to the sexual side of things, i had little experience only having kissed and having a drunken fumble with girls but i knew as soon as met her this would be on a different level. She had one previous serious partner before me and i know it ended badly, her Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner cheated on her and it makes me wonder if it was lack of sex, i no sex isnt eveything but for me it plays a big part.
Hey Hayley I agree with you Sex can be a great, strong foundation for a long term relationship.
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Hope my questions aren't too TMI. Obviously sex with a partner is great, but does sex have to be on the table all the time?
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Are you willing to settle for less sex than you would like?
I am an asexual in a relationship with a sexual person, so mutual masturbation is a handy compromise my partner and I do when I'm not up for the kind of sex she would prefer. I recommend showing your girlfriend AVEN. Perhaps she is asexual, perhaps she has lost her libido, perhaps she's not attracted to you.
It's important to get to the bottom of the issue, but the only person who knows is her And mutual materbating was something we both did and got turned on by again during the active time. Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner not always about sex and i dont push for it, but its got to the point now where i am embarrassed to even try having being knocked back so many times, i could stand beside her naked and get no reaction so perhaps like you say she is not attracted to me any more.
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And it made him much happier, more willing to open up with me, etc. So I didn't find it boring, or unejoyable, even though I have never orgasmed I don't think.
I don't get what that even is and dislike sex in itself. The emotional aspect was enough to keep me interested enough to keep him happy with it, at the start. But, as a relationship progresses for me, my ability to keep with sex dies down. As I truly fall in love with someone, sex Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner boring. I find things without sex much better bonding, much more affectionate and much more meaningful.
Perhaps your girlfriend feels something similar? Only she can tell you though, have a nice long chat about it and ask for details.
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Try not to get upset looikng her answers. Im gonna have to bite the bullet and just talk to her about it as we will end up going round in circles, and leaving her is not an option for me i love her way too much.
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Share this post Link to post Share on other sites. But be prepared for the answers, it may be something you may not like. In any case pose the question to your self: Can I continue on in a sexless relationship, or one with very lackluster obligation sex? If no, break up with her, be friends Im looking 4a longterm lezbian partner pursue other women romantically and sexually. If yes, well then you have a lot of communicating to do and a sacrifice to make.
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Hey touch thanks for your reply, In the start we tried different things to spice it up so to speak, mainly because it was my first relationship with a woman and was scared about progressing to the sexual side of things, i had little experience only having kissed and having a drunken fumble with girls but i knew as soon as met her this would be on a different level.
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